We were working with a couple today who could not connect.
They were pulling away from one another. We could see it in their body language.
So very sad and unnecessary
We helped them to complete the cycle of communication with the missing piece of
Reflective Listening and Validation..
They didn't realize that you can validate the other without having to agree. Just understand.
Let them know you understand.
Without that missing piece, they were just two people being defensive and feeling unheard and unloved.
Such a simple skill.
At the end of the session, he was smiling and she was in tears of gratitude.
I love our work.
It's such an honor to facilitate more love.
Maeve and Orv Fry
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