The greatest GIFT OF LOVE you can give a beloved
is YOUR TRUTH in the moment..
It takes a "warrior of the heart" to risk telling your most intimate truth.
Yet, it is the way to deepest heart connection and emotional intimacy.
There is an art to sharing your vulnerable truth.
Stay in your heart, and use "I feel" and "I want" statements.
Avoid saying what you don't want.
Your beloved is then empowered to give you what you want...they can't give you what you don't want.
Yet I can't tell you how many times we hear clients spend precious time
telling their partners what they don't want.
We watch the listening partner shrink, withdraw and "go down'."
And, when they hear the TRUTH of what is wanted, they light up, their faces relax
and connection happens.
Try it...hold hands, connect with your eyes and tell your truth.
"I want...more time with you...your attention...understanding...more touch..."
What do YOU WANT right now?
What is your truth in this very moment?
Maeve and Orv Fry
WHO ARE MAEVE & ORV FRY?