New Years Visioning:
Our Gift to You!
We want to give you a New Year gift, one that has created miracles in our lives!
We call it "Visioning."
It's a fantastic way to start the New Year.
Anybody can do it, and there are no promises to keep, no "resolutions."
We don't know about you, but the word "resolution" feels like an "ought to."
It feels like a "should," and very few of us like “shoulds."
We like to say "don't should on yourself!"
The difference about Visioning vs. Resolutions is that there are no "shoulds."
You can let your imagination run free.
Imagine that there are no time or financial limits...
Now, ask yourself, "What do you want? Really want?
Notice how it feels in your gut when you simply want something without the voice that says, "Yes, but..."
Here's an example from our lives...
For years, we wanted our Houseboat, and we had no idea how we could ever achieve it.
Still, every time we went to the lake we looked at all the Houseboats, we fantasized about the features we wanted in our fantasy Houseboat.
We had a great time being excited about how neat it would be to have a floating house on the water that we motor out to our favorite hillside or beach.
We "went on the fantasy ride" together. It was fun. It was Play!
And, every year for four years, we wrote our Houseboat vision on our visioning sheets.
We had no idea how we would achieve our dream.
Then one day, we got the unexpected news that Orv was getting a small inheritance. We danced for joy!
Guess what the first thing we bought was?
....our Houseboat, TAWANDA!
We paid cash and got a great deal!
We have it and love it to this day.
So, here is how Visioning works!
Get out at least 13 blank pages, and write the title of the areas of life that are most important to YOU..
Then go to your separate spaces, and write on each page what you want for the year, regarding those areas.
Finally, come together and see where you have the same desires.
Now you can go "on the ride" together, playing like children.
And, of course, it’s o.k.to have yur own, separate desires, as well!
It's amazing what may actually manifest.
When you are done, file away your Visioning Sheets till next year.
When you get the sheets out again, you can see what you have achieved, what you want to continue to put on your visioning sheets for next year, and what isn't true for you any longer.
Here are some of the titles we use:
1. My Life Purpose
2. Children and Family
5. Home Environment
6. Major Purchases
7. Personal Goals
8. Physical Fitness and Health
10. Sexual and Sensual
Feel free to use some or all of these, or make up your own.
First on our Visioning Sheets this year is a Hot Tub!!!
Maeve and Orv Fry
WHO ARE MAEVE & ORV FRY?